tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537756033219100455.post3639440790462438708..comments2023-10-26T01:21:43.665-07:00Comments on Crazy Little World Of Mine: Mid-Week ThoughtsSelma @ Crazy Little World Of Minehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15929702117923613383noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537756033219100455.post-20713185987249048092015-02-25T01:02:46.753-08:002015-02-25T01:02:46.753-08:00Good for you. Good for you for finding the strengt...Good for you. Good for you for finding the strength to be yourself, and for realizing what most people don't see: that there is no happiness to be found in trying to be what you are not, just to please others – no matter how much you may love them! You are you, and that is great. All you can do is strive to be the best *you* you can be, but never strive to be someone else.<br />That takes strength, and courage, so well done, girl! Sending you a big, giant hug.Elisa @ Crazy, Amazing Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02886112221446685560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537756033219100455.post-83734631950156072512015-02-23T08:20:31.955-08:002015-02-23T08:20:31.955-08:00I love this and can relate SO MUCH. It took me a r...I love this and can relate SO MUCH. It took me a really long time to grow into the person I am and to feel comfortable in my own skin. It's incredible how difficult that can be, but I do think there's a certain level of acceptance and comfort that comes from exiting our 20s and figuring things out on our own. <br /><br />Love this and your words. :)mypixiebloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09135461083810124483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537756033219100455.post-48441870759591791292015-02-19T15:47:34.015-08:002015-02-19T15:47:34.015-08:00I love this post, darling. You write with such hon...I love this post, darling. You write with such honesty and strength about such an important subject matter, and obviously one that's been weighing on you. Choices define us, but only in that moment - I think that everything we've done and will do keeps leading us to exactly where we need to be in that moment. I've also found that some choices I've made/mistakes I've made keep circling, probably because I didn't stand my ground or learn my lesson the first time! <br />You are a strong, beautiful woman who stands on her own and makes amazing life choices. I'm proud to have you in my life! xoAllisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14545044266101646612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537756033219100455.post-27882214809009468202015-02-19T12:16:28.596-08:002015-02-19T12:16:28.596-08:00I think I need to take your advice and really just...I think I need to take your advice and really just stop engaging with people that aren't positive, in my best interest and like-minded. Forever I've catered to everyone's needs and wants and never put myself forward. It's a horrible trap to fall into but your post reminded me that I need to just stop trying to fit into this mould of what I think people expect me to be and JUST BE. <br /><br />Really great post, thank you. :)<br /><br />Lindsay<br />www.theflynnigans.comThe Flynniganshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13938230221615097086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537756033219100455.post-60201173255711334842015-02-19T09:30:54.434-08:002015-02-19T09:30:54.434-08:00Such a great post!!! Totally know the feeling. W...Such a great post!!! Totally know the feeling. We have to remember that life is also a learning curve and sometimes we just have to go with it. Kenya https://www.blogger.com/profile/18042330973192781613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537756033219100455.post-82971711567401158132015-02-18T19:19:47.457-08:002015-02-18T19:19:47.457-08:00I think it is awesome that you realize that you ne...I think it is awesome that you realize that you need something different - a life that is your own. I too struggled under the shadow of a mother who wanted things and said things that just weren't me. It was hard, but I too finally came to the same conclusion you did. It's hard, it hurts, but it's also freeing! Big hugs. Mia @ The Chronicles of Chaoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08982605259699460062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537756033219100455.post-46571541245781961382015-02-18T14:25:23.076-08:002015-02-18T14:25:23.076-08:00I just love you Selma. I've been having a supe...I just love you Selma. I've been having a super hard time at work lately. My coworkers haven't been very nice to me and I'm suffering a lot of hurt feelings. It's hard to remind myself that they don't mean a whole lot to me in the grand scheme of my life and their feelings towards me shouldn't make me feel bad. Ugh.Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10206388129869459115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537756033219100455.post-53862375960410140342015-02-18T12:11:16.019-08:002015-02-18T12:11:16.019-08:00What a wonderful and strong post, Selma.
I can som...What a wonderful and strong post, Selma.<br />I can somewhat relate how you feel and there are times when I don't want to pick up the phone because I know the person calling will make me feel bad, insecure and just not enough. It's sad when it happens within ones family. <br />I admire how open, direct and strong you write about it. I am still somewhat in the middle of my very own struggle.<br />All the best, TobiaTobia | craftaliciousmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01920064316585709061noreply@blogger.com